Why do men say they will call.....

[miltie]

but don't?

I mean, seriously, I'm a big girl - if you're not interested, just tell me. but please! Why even bother with the "I'll call you tomorrow" if you're not planning to call the next day, or ever, for that matter?

At the end of the date, if you just KNOW you don't want another one, just say "Take care" or "Have a good night" or something like that? Instead of "I'll call you tomorrow?" That is the dumbest thing!

[nigel]

Some guys are just like that STUPID im sorry to say they are not grown up still kids. I myself never say something i will not keep i have learnt my lesson. and some of them still take advice from others like there so call friends. ie "saw you out last night with that girl ...did not think much of her". . I always say you do not go out with the sweet wrapper you go out with the sweet s once you take of the wrapping then you are left with the sweet and thats what realy counts. It not whats on the surfce it what lies underneth it that counts.

[miltie]

Thanks for the reply, Nige.
And I agree with what you said, I just don't like being one of "those girls" who classify "all guys" in the same category. Reality says unfortunately, there are more in that category than not!

[Hmph]

Hmm.. that was a good question (miltie) and answer (nigel). But knowing men, it's always the simplest or pettiest reason why

they're not that complicated but in fact are very predictable. the only complicated ones are the crazy ones like psychoboy.

[Vinnie]

I sometimes do that, say I will call. But I forget because of busy day. Then when I remember I think she won't talk to me because I didn't call sooner. So I move on.