When is good to lie?

Thalen · Post by **Thalen** » Tue Jan 10, 2006 1:03 am

I would like to meet a woman who is sincere. But in work hard to do. I would like to know I am liked for me. Not money.

Is it wrong to lie concerning work until you know her morals are good.

When is best to tell? Early questions are concerning work. Why important here?

Post by **miltie** » Tue Jan 10, 2006 11:29 am

I don't think that it would be good to lie, but it would be ok if you did not tell her the full extent of what you do for a living if you think it may compromise something.

For example: If you were Bill Gates, you could just say that you are in the computer software business, but you don't have to say right away that you are the multi-billionaire owner!

On a lighter note, not all women are after a guy's money!! :d :bling:

Post by **Hmph** » Tue Jan 10, 2006 2:12 pm

well, that's a hard one. because if you're general some women will be persistent and pushy.

if she's just interested in getting to know YOU then it's a good start after giving her a general answer.

if she's persistent after giving her a general answer, I would instead of answering, immmediately ask her more about herself things that are most important to you. she should be as willing to be upfront about anything as much as she's expecting you to divulge.

and if you drive an expensive car, don't drive it right up to where your date is. park a block or 2 away and walk (if it's safe) and of course don't bring her back to your home unless you're sure things are going to proceed on a more tasteful level.

Thalen · Post by **Thalen** » Fri Jan 13, 2006 7:34 pm

Thank you both for your answers. It is good idea to ask her most important questions at same time if insisting to know.

I can make assumption men lie to women numerously here because of question I am asked. I do not mind disclosing info. For right reasons and right person.

Post by **miltie** » Sat Jan 14, 2006 12:14 pm

...And if she's really stupid and you know you will NEVER go out with her again, you could just go ahead and tell her that you actually OWN Greece!

That'll get her!

Post by **Hmph** » Sat Jan 14, 2006 2:07 pm

yeah, tell her he practically owns greece and for some it will get her to stalk his money.

I was watching The Soup for this week. there was a girl on talking about she doesn't care who's money it is she just doesn't have the gene to use her own money.

the host of the show goes, wow, Kanye West wrote an entire song about you.

but I guess it would be hard where you live and grew up to meet someone not just after money. and hard here in U.S. w/strangers because many typically want info before they'll spit on you to put the fire out.