Tamra asked a very well educated question regarding the ending of the poem, one I would of asked myself. I am a guy and can honestly say that while there are a few guys who would be that caring and sincere, most are not and have alterior motives. Thus by asking what his background was, would be able to better ascertain what his conditioning is, and thus where his motivations or inspiration for such a poem can into light.
She made it sound like you read them poem and were a retard who could not understand it and was downplaying it...lol. Looks more to me that you enjoyed it, thought it was thoughtful, but was curious about how it came to be from a guy. What were his motivations? God forbid you cared enough for JGIRL to ask her this guys past and open her eyes to his possible motivations of this guy trying to railroad her with bullshit for whatever he was playing at. And the problem with this is where???...lol.
Mind you it is possible of course that this guy was 100% sincere when he wrote it. I however would personally only seeing the last part of it, and knowing JGIRL and this guy dated for 3.5 years...and were broken up, would vote for him just trying to get some ass on the side. Otherwise what other purpose would it serve to write her a poem that's entire goal was to make her feel she was a wonderful woman?
He was broken up with her, had no intentions of getting back with her from what it sounded like from her responses, and he writes her this poem? That either indicates:
a. He was trying to make up for past bullshit and slamming her all the time. An abusive relationship, which would not surprise me based upon her mentality and attitude to attract someone like that.
b. He was a great guy, but she had very low self esteem and self worth, and he felt writing that poem would help raise it. Possible, but that would indicate that JGIRL is as full of shit about her level of self confidence compared to how she represents it on here.
OR
c. He was trying to butter her ass up so he could use her for a booty call.
So which was it JGIRL? I don't think you have the balls or the level of maturity required to examine what I wrote above and answer those questions maturely....if even only answering them to yourself for your own benefit.
No love lost with JGIRL gone or Mom-me. They seem to both enjoy drama too much, have no problem speaking their minds...yet get pissed if someone else asks them educated questions. Paranoid types who think when someone asks a question directed to them, about them, or about someone they know...they get defensive, most likely due to a feeling of self doubt and past criticisms from others.
Which is interesting enough on its own. Like Pavlov's dog who is conditioned to salivate at the ringing of a bell, reactions like the ones JGIRL gave are not possible without conditioning of some sort. That conditioning being enough people criticizing JGIRL on whatever topics, issues, experiences, or her reactions to such in life, that it becomes habitual for her to act and respond to you in such a childish manner.
So one should ask themselves: if she is conditioned to such a degree to constantly react in this immature manner, she would of had to have allot of people in life criticize her. Common logic, and statistical probability, would indicate that not everyone who has approached / questioned / criticized her could of all been wrong.
Or in english so someone like her can understand it: she has major issues and doesn't keep her big mouth shut long enough to try and learn from her mistakes. JGIRL lives in her own little private Disneyland and only sees things through "rose colored glasses".
A wise man once described people as living in a rainbow. Each person living there can only see their color of the spectrum and none of the colors above it. However only when they transcend that color, say red in JGIRL's case, can they see things in a new light and be able to more importantly see things from the perspectives of others in the colors of a lower frequency.
The best part about it, JGIRL will read this and have no F**CKING CLUE what I am talking about...lol. Or better yet, 10 to 1 says she will read my statement about Pavlov's dog and say I am calling her a DOG!..lol.
Priceless.
BEST laughter in a long time 