for some reason, I just don't think the women are actually women at FP, they're men/huck buddies behind the identities. because you're right, no woman would say that -- wait, if she is a woman, good lawd.
it doesn't add up. and that love and forgive their neighbor sounds like a gregglobe/psycho-predatory male mind fuck
"love and forgive me even after you busted me peeking in your bathroom window while you were showering".
But would I want to know? The explanation may be crazier. 
her. not even worth it. 
remember Megan from The Exorcist? well do you really want to deal w/that?