Now THAT is what I call a detailed response! Well done and very interesting information.
Perhaps I miscommunicated what I was trying to say. For those who personally were present at these events, concentration camps, slaves, etc., yes they have a right to put closure on the situation and if that comes from reparations...so be it.
It may help but it does not make UP for the horrors these people went through. Me personally I would let it go since I would not want to continue reliving those situations....UNLESS....I rethought this a bit after Tam's post....UNLESS the people who were directly responsible for these acts were still around. At which case I would go after them since people in power are hurt most when that power and money is taken from them.
Where I think the word "victim" is more accurate is when someone's great grandson or grandson, or even son for that matter...who was never a slave...who never dealt with slavery...attempts to file for reparations. They were not there personally, so I cannot agree with them getting money just because their ancestors or deceased relatives were there.
Typically people who try to file for reparations are not those who want to right a wrong, they are people who want to claim being a victim themselves...claim their lives are miserable because of other people...and want to make a fast buck. Yet even with the money it does nothing to change their mentality, nothing to enlighten them to make things better.
To all those in this lifetime who were ridiculed, beaten, mistreated, or other related things...due to who they are, who their relatives were, or only due to the color of their skin...it disgusts me.
Even moreso when it is done to those who are soo kind hearted and go out of their way to try to change things. People naturally fear and ridicule that which they do not understand.
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On a side note: me personally? Not prejudice, never have been. Color of one's skin means nothing to me. However how a person presents themselves, and their mentality / mindset from which they choose to follow destiny or be a master of it, is an indicator of who they truly are and what they are about.
What I personally cannot stand is reverse racism and intentional ignorance, regardless of color of skin from the person it comes from.
INTENTIONAL IGNORANCE: In clearist definition, when you know better and know your actions will lead to negative reactions, yet you still choose to ignore the facts.
Example: When people go around pulling a gun on each other and shoot just because someone looked at them wrong or looked at their girl wrong. Knowing you cannot put out a fire by adding more fuel and that they can most likely expect retaliation, yet being deluded enough to believe if they come off "hard" enough or their reputation scares people enough, nothing will happen. Then if and when someone does retaliate and say a close friend or member of their family gets shot in response, instead realizing they had a hand in it, they use it as an excuse to further add to the bullshit.
REVERSE RACISM: Best way I can describe this is when someone is so conditioned by their own upbringing to decide to blame everyone else of a different race, for why they could not achieve the goals they wanted or why they got a bum deal in life.
Example: I used to work as a manager at a video store years ago. I had some black woman come into the store, grab a movie, then as she was coming up to checkout another woman already at the checkout had asked me nicely where a certain movie was. I took her to the movie and grabbed a copy of it for her, while in the meantime this black woman made sure everyone heard her when she said
"Where the fuck do you think you are going?"
I ignored her. When I returned to the desk and checked out the other woman, the black woman started complaining saying she was there first and proceeded to throw the movie at me across the desk.
I checked the first woman out, then casually picked up the movie...only stating "That was unneccessary. I'm sorry for the delay, is there anything else you need?"
She then came back at me saying "The only reason you made me wait mother fucker, was because I am black!"
I was in such shock I laughed at her and told her that was completely untrue. She continued talking shit, now with a line up of people behind her all curious to see where this would go, including a very nicely dressed black woman in line few people behind her who could only sit there and shake her head as though she was embarassed for what this woman was doing and saying.
I once again told this woman the color of her skin had nothing to do with me helping out someone else who happened to be here before her, and I would of done the same for her.
Well then she starts tossing more mother fuckers at me, and then proceeded to call me a "fuckist racist mother fucker".
At that point I was finally fed up with her, as she then grabbed some candy and tossed it across the counter as it fell onto the floor. I picked it up and calmly responded as follows:
"If you do not calm down and quit swearing, I am going to have to ask you to leave."
She responded:
"I aint goin nowhere you racist bitch!".
I finally had enough and responded:
"Look lady, you are the only one here who seems to give a fuck about the color of your skin. You seem to have more of a problem with being black, than me or anyone else here does. You can leave now, WITHOUT YOUR MOVIE! And guess what? It has nothing to do with the fact you are "BLACK" as you so eliquently pointed out so many times. It has to do with you being rude, loud mouth, who thinks respect is a birthright. Don't come back."
Everyone began clapping and regardless to say that made things worse to the point where I had to call the cops to have her removed because of her continuing to cause trouble and knocking over shit.
As she was removed she told me how she would make sure I lost my job, etc....blah blah...lol....and I nicely gave her corporation phone number for her to report it.
I immediately called my district manager to explain what happened. Sad thing about this situation? She called corporate, and they immediately apologized for ME and gave her 7 free movie rental coupons. Fortunately I wasn't around when she came back into the store to use them. She rented 7 movies at once, was over 3 weeks overdue, never paid the balance and never came back. Talk about a piece of shit and reverse racist...lol.
Point here is that regardless of how corporations feel the customer is "always right" this woman prove that to be false. Thing I hated most about this situation was that by giving her those free movies, they conditioned her into believing she can continue getting away with this type of behavior AND be rewarded for it. I will never forget that.
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So there are my examples

. Hope it hasn't offended anyone, but found it relevant to the topic. That woman is definately the type of person who even if her grandfather had been a slave, she does not deserve any type of reparations as I can only imagine what she would do with any large sums of money other than spread more grief and realize by complaining and making an ass of herself, that she can get whatever she wants.