clarification

Post by **Makewayz** » Mon Jan 17, 2005 3:35 pm

WELL SINCE I'VE ALREADY WELCOMED _AMANAP_ ....

LET ME ADDRESS THIS OTHER ISSUE YALL HAVE BROUGHT FORTH.
I NEVER SAID THAT ALL MEN WANT ANOTHER MAN ... IF I DID, PLEASE SHOW ME THAT POST ... I THINK THE WORD I {{MAY}} HAVE USED WAS MOST ... BUT THAT'S A MATTER OF OPINION, AND SAID FROM EXPERIENCE. THERE'S REALLY NOTHING TO DEBATE ABOUT, AS I'VE STATED THE FACTS AS I KNOW THEM.

WHEN I SAID YOU NEED TO OPEN YOUR EYES, I'M TELLING YOU TO NOT BE SO NIAVE TO THE REALITY THAT MORE MEN THAN YOU'D KNOW WOULD DO IT, IF THE SITUATION IS JUST RIGHT. LIKE FOR INSTANCE, THEY KNOW THAT NOONE WILL FIND OUT, AND THEY TRUST THE PERSON WHO'S DOING IT. ALOT OF TIMES, THE FIRST TIME THAT A MAN WHO HAS BEEN STRAIGHT ALL HIS LIFE DOES IT, IS WITH A CLOSE FRIEND THAT HE FINDS OUT IS IDENTIFYING THEMSELVES AS GAY ... HE TELLS HIM ONE DAY WHILE THEY ARE WATCHING PORN (FOR SOME ODD REASON) MEN DO WATCH PORN WITH THEIR FRIENDS ON OCCASION. I DON'T WANT TO KEEP ARGUING WITH ANYONE ABOUT MY EXPERIENCES THOUGH, BECAUSE MOST OF YOU ALL DON'T WANT TO BELIEVE THE HYPE. AND IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER TO ME, BECAUSE I KNOW WHO I AM.

HAVE A BLESSED DAY.

OH AND ANOTHER THING... I DON' T SEE WHAT THE PROBLEM WAS WITH HIS AVATAR ... IT DIDN'T SHOW ANYTHING.

Post by **Hmph** » Mon Jan 17, 2005 4:16 pm

Makewayz wrote:WHEN I SAID YOU NEED TO OPEN YOUR EYES, I'M TELLING YOU TO NOT BE SO NIAVE TO THE REALITY THAT MORE MEN THAN YOU'D KNOW WOULD DO IT, IF THE SITUATION IS JUST RIGHT. LIKE FOR INSTANCE, THEY KNOW THAT NOONE WILL FIND OUT, AND THEY TRUST THE PERSON WHO'S DOING IT. ALOT OF TIMES, THE FIRST TIME THAT A MAN WHO HAS BEEN STRAIGHT ALL HIS LIFE DOES IT, IS WITH A CLOSE FRIEND THAT HE FINDS OUT IS IDENTIFYING THEMSELVES AS GAY ... HE TELLS HIM ONE DAY WHILE THEY ARE WATCHING PORN (FOR SOME ODD REASON) MEN DO WATCH PORN WITH THEIR FRIENDS ON OCCASION. I DON'T WANT TO KEEP ARGUING WITH ANYONE ABOUT MY EXPERIENCES THOUGH, BECAUSE MOST OF YOU ALL DON'T WANT TO BELIEVE THE HYPE. AND IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER TO ME, BECAUSE I KNOW WHO I AM.

but why do we need to know this shyat??

is this something on our minds daily or yours? let's see: get up, shower, read info for day, wonder what man wants to be with another man, go to store (milk, bread, butter...list of men who want to be with other men), go home...wonder what man wants to be with other men... watch news...wonder why they don't report on men who are with other men on news.... pass neighbor.... wonder if her husband is with another man... and so on and so on...

in fact this wasn't even a passing thought until you brought it up in each and every conversation -- SOME OF US ARE NOT HOPPING IN AND OUT OF BED LIKE OUR CROTCH OR ASS IS ON FIRE, THEREFORE, THIS IS NOT A CONCERN OR ISSUE

get it now

Post by **Makewayz** » Mon Jan 17, 2005 4:31 pm

OKAY, SO I JUST WON'T MENTION IT, UNLESS I'M TALKING ABOUT IT IN THE RAINBOW ROOM. FRANKLY, I DON'T CARE WHAT MEN WANT TO SLEEP WITH OTHER MEN. I CAN NORMALLY TELL ... LIKE WHEN WALKING DOWN 125TH STREET, A DUDE MAYBE WALKING WITH HIS GIRL, BUT HE BREAKS HIS NECK TO LOOK AT ME. WHY????

NONETHELESS, SINCE YOU DON'T WANT TO KNOW, I WON'T TELL YOU, AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO READ IT IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT. NOT BEING A SMART ASS, BUT DAYUM... I'M FEELING LIKE I'M BEING RIDICULED FOR BEING KNOWLEDGEABLE ABOUT AN ISSUE THAT AFFECTS US ALL.

Post by **KingFo1** » Mon Jan 17, 2005 4:52 pm

Wow...okay this debate is getting intense!

Cool it down you guys...lets keep it friendly ok?
Besides, honestly, whats the big deal? If a man is gay and chooses to share it or not, or his experiences, thats his business...but Reggie just chill with the stories ok? Ya don't see us guys going around about how we did this-and-that with girls right? Right. So lets keep things civil and try not to go

or

about things like that ok?

Post by **Hmph** » Mon Jan 17, 2005 5:04 pm

Makewayz wrote:
OKAY, SO I JUST WON'T MENTION IT, UNLESS I'M TALKING ABOUT IT IN THE RAINBOW ROOM. FRANKLY, I DON'T CARE WHAT MEN WANT TO SLEEP WITH OTHER MEN. I CAN NORMALLY TELL ... LIKE WHEN WALKING DOWN 125TH STREET, A DUDE MAYBE WALKING WITH HIS GIRL, BUT HE BREAKS HIS NECK TO LOOK AT ME. WHY????

yeah because stuff like this is geting tiresome.

it doesn't have anything to do with being gay, but has a lot to do with being vain, conceited, arrogant, paranoid and other qualities that are just all around unattractive and SOOOO unlike ANY people I choose to know, gay, straight, multiple wives, etc.

seems like almost every topic heads in this direction:

so I went to the doctor, a lady was in the hospital bleeding profusely...the doctor tried to hit on me.

I went to the movies, the movie about a family struggling to overcome obstacles...the guy at the concession stand was looking at me like he wanted me

I went to church, the sermon was about giving and caring...the minister slipped me his phone number

do you see my point?? or is this the point you're trying to always make?

Post by **Makewayz** » Mon Jan 17, 2005 5:54 pm

WELL TAMRA, I MUST SAY ... I DON'T SEE YOUR POINT IN THE SECOND PART OF YOUR POSTING.

KINGFO ... I'M SORRY IF MY STORIES DON'T INTEREST YOU, BUT I ONLY TELL THEM IN AN EFFORT TO LUCIDIFY MY REMARKS. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING ARROGANT, CONCIETED, OR OTHERWISE VAIN. I'M NOT CONCEITED, YET I'M VERY CONFIDENT. AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO CHANGE THAT. HUNCHING @ TAMRA

AND ANOTHER THING KING ... YOU MAY NOT TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU'VE DONE WITH THIS OR THAT GIRL, AND MAYBE THE OTHER MEN ON THE BOARD DON'T EITHER ... BUT THAT'S A MATTER OF CHOICE. I DO THINK THAT TAMRA HAS THIS BOARD HERE SO THAT WE CAN SHARE OUR OWN OPINIONS ABOUT CERTAIN ISSUES ... THEREFORE IT ALLOWS ME TO PRESENT MY VIEWS ON ANY GIVEN TOPIC.

Post by **Makewayz** » Sat Jun 18, 2005 3:00 am

Wow, I forgot about this one. It was quite intense.