Huh? What? Who?

I finally got caught up on the entire issue regarding the now infamous POEM and Tamra's responses and questions regarding it. All I can say is WTF is JGIRL's problem?!

Tamra asked a very well educated question regarding the ending of the poem, one I would of asked myself. I am a guy and can honestly say that while there are a few guys who would be that caring and sincere, most are not and have alterior motives. Thus by asking what his background was, would be able to better ascertain what his conditioning is, and thus where his motivations or inspiration for such a poem can into light.

She made it sound like you read them poem and were a retard who could not understand it and was downplaying it...lol. Looks more to me that you enjoyed it, thought it was thoughtful, but was curious about how it came to be from a guy. What were his motivations? God forbid you cared enough for JGIRL to ask her this guys past and open her eyes to his possible motivations of this guy trying to railroad her with bullshit for whatever he was playing at. And the problem with this is where???...lol.

Mind you it is possible of course that this guy was 100% sincere when he wrote it. I however would personally only seeing the last part of it, and knowing JGIRL and this guy dated for 3.5 years...and were broken up, would vote for him just trying to get some ass on the side. Otherwise what other purpose would it serve to write her a poem that's entire goal was to make her feel she was a wonderful woman?

He was broken up with her, had no intentions of getting back with her from what it sounded like from her responses, and he writes her this poem? That either indicates:

a. He was trying to make up for past bullshit and slamming her all the time. An abusive relationship, which would not surprise me based upon her mentality and attitude to attract someone like that.

b. He was a great guy, but she had very low self esteem and self worth, and he felt writing that poem would help raise it. Possible, but that would indicate that JGIRL is as full of shit about her level of self confidence compared to how she represents it on here.

OR

c. He was trying to butter her ass up so he could use her for a booty call.

So which was it JGIRL? I don't think you have the balls or the level of maturity required to examine what I wrote above and answer those questions maturely....if even only answering them to yourself for your own benefit.

No love lost with JGIRL gone or Mom-me. They seem to both enjoy drama too much, have no problem speaking their minds...yet get pissed if someone else asks them educated questions. Paranoid types who think when someone asks a question directed to them, about them, or about someone they know...they get defensive, most likely due to a feeling of self doubt and past criticisms from others.

Which is interesting enough on its own. Like Pavlov's dog who is conditioned to salivate at the ringing of a bell, reactions like the ones JGIRL gave are not possible without conditioning of some sort. That conditioning being enough people criticizing JGIRL on whatever topics, issues, experiences, or her reactions to such in life, that it becomes habitual for her to act and respond to you in such a childish manner.

So one should ask themselves: if she is conditioned to such a degree to constantly react in this immature manner, she would of had to have allot of people in life criticize her. Common logic, and statistical probability, would indicate that not everyone who has approached / questioned / criticized her could of all been wrong.

Or in english so someone like her can understand it: she has major issues and doesn't keep her big mouth shut long enough to try and learn from her mistakes. JGIRL lives in her own little private Disneyland and only sees things through "rose colored glasses".

A wise man once described people as living in a rainbow. Each person living there can only see their color of the spectrum and none of the colors above it. However only when they transcend that color, say red in JGIRL's case, can they see things in a new light and be able to more importantly see things from the perspectives of others in the colors of a lower frequency.

The best part about it, JGIRL will read this and have no F**CKING CLUE what I am talking about...lol. Or better yet, 10 to 1 says she will read my statement about Pavlov's dog and say I am calling her a DOG!..lol.

Priceless.

thewiseonecommeth wrote:She made it sound like you read them poem and were a retard who could not understand it and was downplaying it...lol. Looks more to me that you enjoyed it, thought it was thoughtful, but was curious about how it came to be from a guy. What were his motivations? God forbid you cared enough for JGIRL to ask her this guys past and open her eyes to his possible motivations of this guy trying to railroad her with bullshit for whatever he was playing at. And the problem with this is where???...lol.

DING DING DING. you hit the nail on the head here. along with the other stuff as well. but again, it was thoughtless of me to post comments on a public message board about something.

I just wonder if she's reading the words or the letters and then throwing in other words. if you read w/out emotion, you can listen first and then react, instead of reacting w/out reading or understanding. aaay, yaa aaay ya yaaaaaa

and by the way, JGirl wouldn't read this because she'll claim it's too long (more than a paragraph is too much) while she's reading other conspiracy stuff and long poems that she will believe and attack over.

thewiseonecommeth wrote:The best part about it, JGIRL will read this and have no F**CKING CLUE what I am talking about...lol. Or better yet, 10 to 1 says she will read my statement about Pavlov's dog and say I am calling her a DOG!..lol.

I have $50.00 on the dog namecalling.

Who knows what she is or was thinking.

I have few thoughts for JGIRL in case she is reading this:

When you go running to your friends to tell them all how everyone here ganged up on you, was insulting you, or whatever else you can come up with your customized partial story...be sure to include some of the wonderful statements you made to others here before ANYONE got on your ass.

These include the following wonderful statements:

"Tamra you are coming up short in some aspect of your womanhood"

and this one:

"If you were anywhere closer to me...I would rip your head off and shit down your neck".

and have to love this one..

"...pack of cunts!"

Don't forget to tell your friends you said the first two before anyone even had a critical rebuttle against you.

You have truly proven to everyone here that you are a child mentally.

Man, you hit the nail right on the head wiseone...and those insults are really something else.

Oh yeah, put me down for $25.00 on the dog name calling.

I bet $50 that she will claim I called her a dog.

I bet she is one of those irritating people who sees a movie, only pays half attention, then tells everyone what the movie was about and is WAYYY off!

Im actually surprised we have not heard back from little ms. wonderful today. She is probably off telling her sad stories of how the entire community here ganged up on her, leaving out the reality of what was actually said and how ignorant she was in her responses.

I am all for an online community like this one where everyone is open, treated as equals, intelligent, and most importantly with as little drama as possible. Everyone should have a right to their opinion, whether we agree with it or disagree.

However sometimes you have to weight the bad and the good and if one or more people only cause drama without cause, that community is better off without them.

In JGIRL's case she made too many assumptions about Tamra's intentions being negative, when I see it as her only looking out for JGIRL regarding the guy who wrote that poem. Instead of trying to clarify what Tamra meant, or just dropping it as Tamra had done, all JGIRL did was toss some insults and childish vulgarities.

Here is a clue for you JGIRL: You cannot put out a fire when you add more fuel. Tamra seen you misunderstood what she was trying to relay, and thus ended the topic until you started back up with your "ripping off your head and shit down your throat" commentary among others.

For someone who claims to be such a mature woman and claims everyone else but her has issues, AND being a mother, I truly wonder if when she gets upset at her daugther if she calls her some of the wonderful names she used on here. For the childs sake, lets hope she does not turn out like her mother.

I seriously doubt JGirl was actually a girl, let alone a mother of children. her behavior as a mother is disturbing. and mom-me's comments to defend the things she said while calling her "upstanding" and having integrity were equally disturbing. I doubt she was the actual person behind the name.

what mother has time to sit online all day and throw out insults, including a mother who claims to be working? I'd be more inclined to believe it's someone who lives in a 1 room mobile home on cinder blocks w/kids running wild all day or in and out of juvie-hall. or a low self-esteem welfare trick waiting for her man to drop by and lay something on her so she jumps online to pass the time. orrrr my best assumption: a man pretending to be a girl to get next to someone he could never have in any way in his life. their insults were meant to attack and were personally intended, spiteful and hateful. who'd have those kinds of feelings and animosity for a complete stranger as a woman with kids and a full-time job? and the possibility of two of them (Mom-me and JGirl) are slim to none.

I'm putting 50$ on her saying you called her a dog also.

Great analysis wiseone.

I'm going to give mom-me the benefit of the doubt here and suggest that perhaps she did not read thru all the threads and realize that JGirl was calling fellow posters the "C" word and threatening to poop on people. To me, it seemed out of mom-me's character to jump to conclusions.... but that is merely my

However, taking a downward spiral to insult others' grammar took me by suprise as well. You never can tell.

yeah because the thing that stood out from day one were all the personal questions JGirl had, and her PM's. like she'd disappear for a while and jump on and start sending me PM's about Huck, as if I thought about that fool other than when asked. some questions were weird: so would you say what he was doing was stalking and harassing you?

the other series were "where are you now?" while I'm thinking "and you are?" or this person could be anybody.

I'm guessing the "c" word came into play to look for something to stab with was from a thread in the ladies room. because again the attacks were meant to get a personal rise, but too bad they picked the wrong person. how upset could I get after losing my home, my car (which I cherished), my livelihood, my financial well being, and a whole lot more to low down frauds? after a person goes through something devastating, everything else is water under the bridge or immediately trivial as it won't help in any positive way did she/he seriously think their game could do anything more than entertain, which it did very well? BEST laughter in a long time

I do recall you mentioning before how she was always asking you where you lived, where you were "now", trying to get clues where you were at and getting pissed when you didn't tell her.

Wouldnt surprise me if she wasn't a woman. I dont know many women who throw around the C word anyways, without a second thought. Wouldnt it be ironic if JGIRL turned out to be Huck and Mom-me turned out to be Laie...completely brainwashed by Huck into thinking we were out to get him?

Doubtful since they would not of been able to accomplish much other than trying to get into our inner circle to get non-public information. Who knows, and honestly at this point who cares?! I say good riddens to JGIRL.

Now Mom-me I personally never had a problem with, until I seen her running to JGIRL's rescue and tossing her own uncalled for insults around. She probably wasnt even aware of the ripping your head off, or the "pack of C" or "womanhood" comments. At least I hope she wasn't, otherwise that makes her no better than JGIRL.