I'd Like To Know

[Silly Wabbit]

Yes. Why do yall withhold so much info as if yall are

[Makewayz]

WITHOLD INFO?

UHM, IM SORRY ... BUT YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO BE A LITTLE MORE SPECIFIC. I DO BELIEVE EVERY HUMAN BEING KEEPS SOME THINGS TO THEMSELVES, JUST BECAUSE IT'S THEIR DAYUM INFORMATION. AND IF THEY DON'T CHOSE TO SHARE IT WITH YOU ... GET OVER IT.

[Hmph]

now what kind of answer is that? are you saying that when a woman asks you a direct QUESTION, you don't feel it's fair to answer DIRECTLY with the information requested??

let's take the Amber Frey situation: she asked Scott Peterson point blank, are you married? He said his wife died.

OK that was a bad example, but there's a lot of Scott's (minus the murder) and a lot of Amber's out there. people tell people what they want them to hear, not the truth, or a direct answer. It would save people time.

and let's get a "real" man in here to answer, not a male-on-male man.

[RangerBob]

Well, I have to agree somewhat with Reggie regarding being more specific. Let me give you an example - if, in a public forum such as this, you were to ask me what color my eyes are, I'd be happy to tell you that they're blue. However, if you asked me how many times I've had sex in my lifetime, well, that would be nobody's business, right?

To continue the example: If I were dating a woman, and she asked me how many times I've had sex in my lifetime, I would, of course, be forthcoming with the info, because it's pertinent to the relationship in some way - but if she asked me how much money I had in the bank, I'd decline to reveal that information.

On the other hand - if I'm in a committed relationship, then I can't imagine any sort of information that would be private, really. The only real exception I can think of might be that I may withhold information about someone else that I've been privvy to because I may have been trusted with something that that person didn't want anyone else to know - does that make sense?

[Hmph]

HAYLE NAWWW... when I ask a question, I want the evidence AND the answer. capishe?

but seriously some of the answer made sense, but I guess we need Ms. Tracy back to be more specific.