He or she says he doesn't want to cheat but

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Hmph
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He or she says he doesn't want to cheat but

Post by Hmph »

has to :wtf:

what is up with that? can someone shed light on someone who claims they have to cheat.

and if you're married, why even bother to stay in the marriage?? you're just wasting people's time. but is this the for worse part of "for better of worse"? or the cheaper to keep her/him situation?

me personally, I say move on, find your happiness in this life, don't wait for next one by playing games with not 1 but 2 or more in this lifetime.
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Post by KingFo1 »

I'm absolutely clueless...if you EVER feel the need to cheat on someone, its an obvious sign that your relationship needs work...and most of the time its better to just let your current relationship go and move on. I'd rather dump someone than to cheat on them, because thats just not fair to them when they're being loyal to you.
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Post by Hmph »

yeah but unfortunately, most people don't see it this way. for some the thrill of cheating is a rush to them. for others, they're just cowards and want to appear like the good faithful person rather than admit they're creep, or they're afraid of hurting someone's feelings.

for others, they claim they're not getting something at home (attention, sex or specific sex), so roam around.

for others, they're just the scum of the earth, and just don't care.
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Post by Hmph »

wow, saw this article... sad how peoplel can't figure this one out directly.
Is She Cheating?

by Miss Love

Whether you know it or not, someone, somewhere, has cheated on you. It hurts the ego, I know, but it's a part of life. We've all been there. Here are some things to look for if you suspect your girl is sneaking around behind your back. Keep alert.

I'll Get It

Pay attention to how she behaves when the phone rings. Does she run across the room to answer it? Does she take the phone to the other room so you can't hear her conversation? If she seems uncomfortable talking on the phone while you're in the room, she's hiding something. It may not be another man, but it's worth investigating.

Just a Friend

Is she spending more and more time away from you? If you're starting to wonder where she spends all her time, ask her if you can join in next time she says she's going out with friends. If everything is on the up and up, she'll likely welcome your company. If she seems nervous or frustrated, well ... draw your own conclusions.

You're Wearing That?

She gets more glammed up for other people then she does for you. Something's definitely amiss if her best and sexiest outfits are being saved for nights when she's not going out with you. And you should always be suspicious of a girl who leaves the house enveloped in perfume -- and you sneezing in her wake.

Not Tonight, Honey

Are you less intimate than you have been in the past? If she's no longer showering you with affection, you have to start wondering if she's getting it somewhere else.

What Did You Call Me?

You tell her a story and she responds by saying, Oh, Fred, that's so funny. Only problem: You're not Fred. Oops. Well, at least now you know.
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Marcus
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Post by Marcus »

Yup a lot of creeps out there. Y you always gotta ask questions, yanno, always be a detective. :think:
tuffb*tch
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Post by tuffb*tch »

yes there are... i just had to deal with one of em a few months back.. and the funniest thing is how ignorant they are and they think they can away with it tsk tsk tsk man some ppl are just soo cluless.. :roll:
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Post by Makewayz »

My comments are made in RED!
tamra wrote:wow, saw this article... sad how peoplel can't figure this one out directly.
Is She Cheating?

by Miss Love

Whether you know it or not, someone, somewhere, has cheated on you. It hurts the ego, I know, but it's a part of life. We've all been there. Here are some things to look for if you suspect your girl is sneaking around behind your back. Keep alert.

I'll Get It

Pay attention to how she behaves when the phone rings. Does she run across the room to answer it? Does she take the phone to the other room so you can't hear her conversation? If she seems uncomfortable talking on the phone while you're in the room, she's hiding something. It may not be another man, but it's worth investigating.

UHM >>>>> SHE MUST BE A DUMB BLONDE IF SHE GIVES OUT HER HOME NUMBER KNOWING HER MAN EITHER LIVES WITH HER, OR IS AT HER APARTMENT ENOUGH TO EVEN FEEL COMFORTABLE ANSWERING HER PHONE. THAT ENTIRE SCENARIO IS JUST PLAIN DUMB! :roll:

Just a Friend

Is she spending more and more time away from you? If you're starting to wonder where she spends all her time, ask her if you can join in next time she says she's going out with friends. If everything is on the up and up, she'll likely welcome your company. If she seems nervous or frustrated, well ... draw your own conclusions.

LMAO ... FRIENDS YOU'VE NEVER MET, NOR BEEN INVITED TO MEET ... BEWARE!

You're Wearing That?

She gets more glammed up for other people then she does for you. Something's definitely amiss if her best and sexiest outfits are being saved for nights when she's not going out with you. And you should always be suspicious of a girl who leaves the house enveloped in perfume -- and you sneezing in her wake.

NO COMMENT ... THERE'S ANOTHER TOPIC ABOUT THIS.

Not Tonight, Honey

Are you less intimate than you have been in the past? If she's no longer showering you with affection, you have to start wondering if she's getting it somewhere else.

MAYBE SHE GOT A VIBRATOR THAT ACTUALLY MAKES HER COME ... YOU NEVER KNOW, LMBAO :rofl:

What Did You Call Me?

You tell her a story and she responds by saying, Oh, Fred, that's so funny. Only problem: You're not Fred. Oops. Well, at least now you know.

MARY J MADE A SONG FOR YOU TO DOWNLOAD TO YOUR CELL PHONE AND PROGRAM AS THE RINGER FOR WHEN YOU RECIEVE A CALL FROM THAT PERSON ... IT'S CALLED ... "IT'S A WRAP!" :lmfao:
"The best way to predict the future is to create it." ~ Divine Bradley
Makewayz
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Post by Makewayz »

And on topic ... MOST people cheat because it's CONVENIANT, and they are able to GET AWAY with it. There is no LOGICAL explanation as to why people cheat ... They just do. And if you allow it, and don't address the situation ... I think you should listen to what's that dude name PUFFY produced??? The Winans boy ... What's his name. Shyt, I done forgot ... OH YEAHHHHHHH Mario ... Mario Winans... He said, "I DON'T WANNA KNOW" ... If you playing me, keep it on the low. :rofl:
"The best way to predict the future is to create it." ~ Divine Bradley
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