Here's one problem with today's relationships

Post by **Makewayz** » Thu Sep 09, 2004 10:27 am

To My SIS

Whatever

Post by **Hmph** » Thu Sep 09, 2004 10:40 am

Makewayz wrote: Uhm well ,

Did you NOT say that he then told you ... again like harddawg stated, y'all be asking to many dayum questions ... y'all won't together *yet* ... why that man can't keep his options open? So boo hoo hoo ... get over it ... what you was supposed to do was put it on him, and make him choose you instead of her

eeeew

hey look what i got ain't no ritz cracker, I don't want to be handing out to ev body until they decide to act right!

all I'm saying is tell me these things before hand so I can keep it movin.....

harddawg (deceased) · Thu Sep 09, 2004 10:50 am

oh lawd defcon 5 in this piece on this 1 subj

but I c ur point but sometimes yall ask 2 many questions and not enuf at other times.
but I c where u were coming from Tam, u made it clear up front u just wanted to b friends or w8 til ur situation got better. he claimed he wasnt gonna b a prob, but was just in ur mind a waste of time when ur plate was already full.

i think in this case he had more expectations (oh snap big word alert) than u, he was qqn 4 something, but who knows what, prolly y he held out info. u weren't qqn so not expecting much. i shole hope he didn't act an azz or arrogant while hanging out that would have said a lot as well about where his mind was.

Post by **Hmph** » Thu Sep 09, 2004 3:25 pm

umm he was just rude and insensitive to the environment, yet another reason to not come to the city. he acted like my spot was a vacation rental or something I should not be stressed about, but it was hell and my #1 priority was getting out of it, not getting into him. so really he wasted his time and mine.

but I wanted to show him book vendors in nyc n harlem. but he yelled

at one of them over something trivial within a minute of meeting them.

he just had "NON-REVEALED" issues and someone else revealed a lot of other things later so u're right much better off than whoever he's with now, not to mention I'm happier as well.

tuffb*tch · Post by **tuffb*tch** » Fri Sep 10, 2004 8:40 am

fawk him tams lol (not literally) he don't deserve to be in your presence hahahah and its good that your happy im gald!

Post by **Hmph** » Fri Sep 10, 2004 10:04 am

oh i know high five to that tuff! (wow, there's no high five smiley

bummer )

but I was just using that example as to how not revealing things is the same as lying. something those cheezy menz don't get

(secretly

)

please believe me I ain't worried about that

, I just found it funny how he went thru such great efforts to w/hold important stuff (like they typically do) when I was the last person he needed to w/hold from since there was no relationship.

Post by **Makewayz** » Fri Sep 10, 2004 3:49 pm

somebody sounds like a is it just me, or do women complain too much

Post by **Hmph** » Fri Sep 10, 2004 6:38 pm

yeah wha-EVA

Post by **Makewayz** » Fri Sep 10, 2004 8:02 pm

KayKay · Post by **KayKay** » Sat Sep 11, 2004 12:24 am

Makewayz wrote: Uhm well ,

Did you NOT say that he then told you ... again like harddawg stated, y'all be asking to many dayum questions ... y'all won't together *yet* ... why that man can't keep his options open? So boo hoo hoo ... get over it ... what you was supposed to do was put it on him, and make him choose you instead of her

nah y she couldn't keep her options open instead of being left n dark??

c how yall do. just scandalous n y we gotta keep goin upside da head till yall get it right