Having a sexy bra and panties set is wonderful, but if the energy and passion is not behind them...it doesnt matter how cute or ugly they are
.I personally would find a woman who wore a button down shirt and boxers as sexy as one in seductive bra and panty set.
Some women take it personal when they spend tons of cash on an outfit that hits the ground in 2 minutes and doesnt receive a compliment. Yet my response to you would be two things:
1. If it hits the ground in 2 minutes, hasn't it done it's job?..lol.
2. If a person is attracted to you, it shouldnt matter what you wear.
Some outfits do look more attractive than others mind you, and can be more arousing, however I have always been a firm believer in if you are passionate enough...you shouldnt need outfits like that for your man to want you. If that is the only way that person desires you, there is a problem